Sunday, January 30, 2011

What Can You Do When Politicians Are Failing To Make A Difference?

I want to be honest with you, there are many days we wake up and wonder 'what are we doing here in India...', yet, it only takes a few minutes on the streets and we become extremely thankful for this opportunity we have been given! There are constant reminders that make us grateful for all we have.

While there are times when it would be much easier to turn a blind eye, when you see the issues first hand, you comprehend the challenges mankind is really facing, it often feels like a losing battle. The reality is most people simply don't care about global issues, survival of endangered species, or the well-being of other people who might be less fortunate...

We may not like it, but can easily start to understand. Self preservation and personal prosperity take precedent over the welfare of other people and planet.

There are many a times when we have thought 'what is the point...', what difference can we really make when the task to improve human values, stop the extinction of earths creatures and improve environmental sustainability seem so monumental, and often an impossible one.

Thankfully, we have met many individuals, such as the volunteers of Art of Living, Family Services, Global Concern, and many more. We draw inspiration from those who dedicate their lives to being warriors, true warriors, their battles are not fought with guns, rockets, weapons... they fight their battles with their hearts, minds, their will. They are driven to make a difference. They have taken a stand because the ones we elect, put into power, the ones who should be addressing these issues, the ones who are paid to 'govern' seem to have much more important things to do. War, money and power...

Political turmoil, corruption accusations, debates with what to do with the estimated $140 billion dollars that have been siphoned out of India... just another day of politics in India...

...meanwhile: 'There are over 11 million street children in India, (Consortium for Street Children). Some are orphans; others have been abused or abandoned by their families. They live in extreme poverty on the streets and railway platforms of India, socially excluded, and survive by begging for food, working in the exploitative informal economy, or find themselves recruited by criminal gangs into invisible labor and brothels.' (from Global Concerns India website)

Even though India has experienced incredible growth over the last several years, experienced much economic prosperity, individuals making a vast amount of wealth, the people of India are still experiencing severe infrastructure, social and environmental challenges.

Poverty, labor exploitation, human trafficking, illiteracy, sanitation, infrastructure development, pollution, street trash, deforestation, urban de-greening... just a few of the challenges the majority of Indians have to deal with on a daily basis. And these issues are not just common to India, they are global challenges.

One must look at political corruption, dysfunction and bickering and even outdated superstitious religious beliefs and practices as sources for the lack of progress in so many areas of society and quality of living.

The Dalai Lama, who we saw live yesterday, said that prayer alone will not resolve these issues, we can not rely on government, only individual action and desire to make a difference.

He went on to say that while India may be leaders in 'Information Technology', they must now master 'Inner Technology'. The ancient knowledge of the Vedas is India's heritage, it is the source of Buddhism, and in many ways all religions have drawn from these sacred teachings. People will argue about which religion is best... the best religion is the one that gives you the faith and courage to be the best you can and to make a difference.

One might ask 'What can I do...?', I simply share what someone wiser than me once said, 'Do what YOU can, do YOUR best, but do something... that is all one can really do.'

Make A Difference,
Beejal Parmar

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Project Hand in Hand: Bedsheets & Biscuits

We accompanied members of The Family Services to help with Project Hand In Hand to distribute bedsheets and biscuits at the Sheila Kothwala Institute for the hearing impaired. The children who's ages range from K-high school, have a range of hearing related disabilities and are all underprivileged. The Family Services have graciously been raising funds for Project Hand In Hand to help these types of institutes who receive very little, if any state funding.

Santa Visits our Hotel Room in India on Christmas Day

No tree, no decorations, no chimney, no turkey, no crackers, no hot chocolate and no snow... just a little love, peace, joy... and Santa still materialized on Christmas Day... and the kids were HAPPY!

Saturday, January 1, 2011

New Years Eve and Day in San Diego... AND India!

Turn Barriers Into Breakthroughs in 2011

Our New Years eve in Bangalore, India was subdued. The few friends we have made, all had other arrangements on New Years Eve. We spent the evening in our room at the guest house, Yogi and Khushi enjoyed an early nights sleep, I worked late into the night, Shivani read her book and later in the evening we watched 2012, (actually I posted Facebook at 12.12am, on 1/1/11 while we were watching 2012!). As midnight welcomed in 2011, we posted New Year messages around and called a few friends in San Diego. All in all a fairly low key New Years Eve in Bangalore, India.

At 12.30pm on the 1st Jan 2011, India (11pm on 31st Dec 2010, San Diego) we connected with our friends in San Diego via skype. The gathering was at our dear friends home, Patrick Combs and Deanna Latson, together with them were some of our dearest friends in San Diego. Our friends had gathered to celebrate the coming of 2011 with a board breaking ceremony.

We could feel the serenity and intentional energy in the living room. Our friends had written their desired breakthroughs and intentions on 12 inch x 12 inch pine boards. The computer was place on the edge of the circle of friends and we watched as one by one they came to the center, adults and kids alike, broke their board. We watched as boards resisted, yet with support, coaching, breathing, focus, inner strength, boards and barriers gave way to each of our friends breakthroughs.

While they broke their boards, we took notes, reviewed our barriers and intentions for 2011. Not sure where we are going to find 12x12x1 pine boards here in India, but when we do, we have some board breaking of our own to do!

As the board breaking came to an end, we chatted to our friends, as midnight approached in San Diego, our friends put on their party hats, readied their whistles and prepared for the countdown. HAPPY NEW YEAR… we watched as they cheered, embraced and celebrated the arrival of 2011. They wished us Happy New Year, and we wished them right back. We were brimming with smiles and happy warm emotions as we felt their love and joy from 14714 kilometers or 9144 miles away.

While Teleportation may not be possible just yet, thanks to the technology that is available today we were their with them, more than in spirit, we could hear them, feel their emotions, their joys, their love. It was if we meta-physically transported into their living room to be there with them. Time for a group photo, the camera was carefully positioned, we were picked up, and SNAP! We were in their New Years Day group photo… and we actually showed up!

As the New Year celebration faded, our friends decided to do a Polar Bear plunge in their swimming pool. A pool we have enjoyed on the more warmer San Diego days, but at 12.30am on the 1st Jan 2011, the pool was bitterly cold. We watched as they changed (not literally watched them change), and leave the comforts of the living room as they made their way to the poolside. We were carried out to the pool side in to the dark. We were not able to see them jump into the pool, but we could hear their screams and shrills. The entire experience and visuals was like something out of the horror film the ‘Blair Witch Project’, thankfully the only thing consuming our friends was the ice cold pool water.

We were carried back into the room and placed facing the fire. The mood was very relaxed, calm, as if the cooling waters of pool had shifted the mood from the energy and excitement of the arrival of the New Years, to a state of peace and contemplation.

Shivani wanted to sing for her friends, so we asked them to gather around the computer and Shivani sang ‘Never Say Never’, a fitting tribute to the evening they had created. We then asked Patrick to sing a song for us. We watched as Patrick sat by the fire with his guitar and sang. Shortly after, Patrick carried the computer around the room and we bid our friends goodbye. And with a click of the ‘End’ button we were instantly transported back to our room in Bangalore, India.

We had just experienced our friends New Years party from the other side of the world. It was a wonderful experience, and while we could not be there in body, we were aware of all the same emotions as if we had been there in body.

It was now 2.30pm in India, in a few hours we would be participating in a New Years Day candlelight ceremony with new friends we had met a few weeks earlier in Bangalore. We took a short nap, got ready and were driven to their home in a chauffeur driven vehicle… otherwise known as a Rickshaw.

We mingled with our new friends and their friends, and after a potluck dinner, we gathered in the living room around a large candle. After a few songs acknowledging the presence of God. Then it was time for the candlelight ceremony to commence. The kids went first followed by the adults. Each person lit their candle, from the central candle (representing the Divine presence) and placed it on the tray followed by the sharing of our gratitude, intentions and prayers for 2011.

I will share more about our new friends in later blogs, because they are a very special group of people, involved with human transformation work, schools for the poor, environmental sustainability… in fact everything we are passionate about.

In our (my and Yogi’s) sharing we reflected on the challenges and reward of the having to leave our home and friends in San Diego. Thankful for the support we have received in the transition process from our friends and family. While we miss our friends dearly, we have been able to enjoy a truly wonderful adventure since arriving in India, an adventure very few people will ever have the opportunity to experience. We have been fortunate to have the flexibility to travel and work from the foothills of the Himalayas to the beaches of Goa. We don’t know exactly why we have been guided here, but we know that guidance is divine in nature. We are here to learn, find, and something more than that.

We have some great things planned for this year, Karl Anthony’s (www.KarlAnthony.com) visit to India in February with a tour planned for Oct. The 123Employee 3-Day live summit in April, the launch of our training company in India mid year. I am also looking forward to the launch of Patrick Combs MightClub.org, a revolution in personal development.

Thanks to technology we are able to stay connected intimately with our friends, while we explore a new continent, enjoy new adventures and make new friends… and discover why we have been guided to India.

In 2010 we were able to turn obstacles into opportunity, barriers into breakthrough… It’s going to be an incredible 2011.

Wishing you much love, peace, joy for 2011

Beejal Parmar